Dear Adam Frisby and Jamie Corbett

Dear Adam and Jamie,

First of all, I want to start by saying congratulations, what wonderful news about your baby!

The reason I’m writing this is to share my thoughts and feelings openly. I know not everyone will agree with me, but this is how I truly feel.

I find it upsetting that some people react negatively to gay couples having children. Why shouldn’t two men who love each other bring a baby into the world? There are plenty of straight people who, in my opinion, should never have been allowed to procreate; people like Tracey Connelly, Steven Barker, and Jason Owen, who were responsible for the tragedy of Baby P. Love and care matter far more than gender.

It baffles me that anyone could be disgusted by two people, yes, people, not just their genders, choosing to raise a child together. I also saw comments suggesting you should have adopted instead because there are many children who need homes. But would those same people say that to a heterosexual couple? Adoption is wonderful, yes, but why shouldn’t you have the chance to have a biological child if that’s what you want?

I feel incredibly fortunate to have grown up with a loving mum and dad. But really, what makes a “family”? Adam, I know you’ve been through difficult times and found family in your friends. That, to me, proves family isn’t about the “standard” model—it’s about love, support, and belonging.

In the end, whether a child has a mum and a dad, two dads, or two mums doesn’t matter. What matters is that they are loved and cared for. And I know without a doubt that your baby girl will grow up in a home filled with joy, laughter, and unconditional love. She’s also lucky to have the wonderful Grandad Frisby in her life!

I wish you both all the happiness in the world as you begin this new chapter.

With love and congratulations,

Alicia